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  PEXELS / ALLEKSANA 

 

 

 

 [Life](/life) 

 



 /  09 February 2021  

#  The Sex Toys &amp; Accessories To Try This Valentine’s Day  


 If you’re stuck in a rut or just want to shake things up this Valentine’s day, give the chocolates a miss and treat yourself and your partner to something you can both enjoy. Sex toys have had a major makeover as of late – now discreet, sleek and sophisticated, there’s something for everyone. Here are the best ones to try…  
 

 



 

  PEXELS / ALLEKSANA 

 

 

 

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## TOYS 

 

 

 

Even if you think your between-the-sheets time doesn’t need a kick-start, remember 37% of women need clitoral stimulation (and not just penetration) to climax. Adding a toy into the mix can be a fun way to ensure maximum satisfaction for both of you. If you’re a beginner, go slow – use the lowest setting and the smallest size. [Je Joue’s Rabbit Bullet](https://amzn.to/3tK2w0t) and [Kiki de Montparnasse’s Gold Bullet](https://www.kikidm.com/collections/pleasure/products/etoile-bullet-gold)[ ](https://www.kikidm.com/collections/pleasure/products/etoile-bullet-gold)are the perfect entry-level options and ideal for couples play. Those wanting to explore new territory should try LELO’s cult [Transformer](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cultbeauty.co.uk%2Flelo-picobong-transformer.html), a double-ended vibrator that can be used for everything from clitoral to G-spot and even prostate stimulation.

 

 

 

 ![Doxy Wand from Coco de Mer](https://media.slman.com/_GIhm3IqS0J5STnwgRjd3cnNtE4=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fcoco-de-mer-doxy-wand.png?itok=j6tCD1aK)

 

[#### Doxy Wand](https://www.coco-de-mer.com/product/doxy-number-3-rechargeable-wand-vibrator-matte-black/)

 

##### Coco de Mer



 

£175

 

 

 

 ![Eva II from Dame Products](https://media.slman.com/1GOUR9AUy_P5-8sLOn8FIsXYO3w=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fdame-products-eva-ii.jpg?itok=yhQyEihy)

 

[#### Eva II](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A//www.cultbeauty.co.uk/dame-products-eva-ii-quartz.html)

 

##### Dame Products



 

£135

 

 

 

 ![Rabbit Bullet from Je Joue ](https://media.slman.com/7P9wvLJ4v8q558saTLVeB5O8HDo=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fje-joue-rabbit-bullet.png?itok=cHXoJ20b)

 

[#### Rabbit Bullet](https://amzn.to/3tK2w0t)

 

##### Je Joue 



 

£35.75

 

 

 

 ![Picobong Transformer from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/c2DnoUvqDV666qIFTAZon-fONcI=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fcult-beauty-lelo-picobong-transformer.jpg?itok=52V1csw4)

 

[#### Picobong Transformer](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A//www.cultbeauty.co.uk/lelo-picobong-transformer.html)

 

##### Lelo



 

£85

 

 

 

 ![Etoile Bullet Gold from Kiki de Montparnasse](https://media.slman.com/Eq0fbYT9k0N9MA0QwYKnfxHU27Q=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fkiki-de-montparnasse-etoile-bullet-gold.jpg?itok=q4QTxt5z)

 

[#### Etoile Bullet Gold](https://www.kikidm.com/collections/pleasure/products/etoile-bullet-gold)

 

##### Kiki de Montparnasse



 

£130

 

 

 

 ![Pom from Dame Products ](https://media.slman.com/wfDTWUwniTJtqFMbfF-6F2YM-00=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fdame-products-pom.jpg?itok=zHXsdr4e)

 

[#### Pom](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A//www.cultbeauty.co.uk/dame-products-pom-plum.html)

 

##### Dame Products 



 

£95

 

 

 

 



 

 

 

 [ ![Couple's Vibrator, £39 | We-Vibe](https://media.slman.com/1w2cKVHUMGsll-ZABuVHg0dCoY8=/800x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fwe-vibecouplesvibrator.png?itok=4br1Y6X6)

 

 ](https://www.amazon.co.uk/We-Vibe%C2%AE-Vibrator-Rechargeable-Waterproof-Body-Safe/dp/B07ZG4CS3Y/ref=pd_lpo_121_img_1/257-8673602-8787949?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B07ZG4CS3Y&pd_rd_r=b4666a24-02ec-41b3-9e8b-e351704df10b&pd_rd_w=aD5ed&pd_rd_wg=FYHj7&pf_rd_p=da) 

Couple's Vibrator, £39 | We-Vibe  


 

 

 

 

 

 “Fitting between you and your other half during sex, this pocket-sized toy delivers hands-free, intense vibrations. It’s also waterproof, making it safe to use in the shower.”  
 

 



 

 



 

 

 ![Tor 2 from Lelo ](https://media.slman.com/PzsVCXpj-smEh9STeVThL5cL_PM=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Flelo-tor-2.png?itok=7Vz2nvec)

 

[#### Tor 2](https://www.lelo.com/tor-2?gclid=Cj0KCQiApY6BBhCsARIsAOI_GjYJRNukfRseIsXgJqaOrC2Z8HnxJErbCrBrHlKHUP9wh6izctNmQU8aAm63EALw_wcB)

 

##### Lelo 



 

£109

 

 

 

 ![Multifun 3 from Satisfyer ](https://media.slman.com/7c5KOqGdlD3qHHGp0Bf8N1hso3k=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fsatisfyer-partner-multifun-3.jpg?itok=TP12UzjB)

 

[#### Multifun 3](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Satisfyer-SATPARTNERM3W/dp/B07V1K6YVM?th=1)

 

##### Satisfyer 



 

£33.79

 

 

 

 ![The Sex Box from Soho Home](https://media.slman.com/yyb7PHEfirp40vWz5DVhYqyyjrg=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fsohohomethesexbox.png?itok=qFz7dJug)

 

[#### The Sex Box](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=42468&murl=https%3A//www.sohohome.com/products/the-sex-box)

 

##### Soho Home



 

£175

 

 

 

 



 

 

 

 

## ACCESSORIES 

 

 

 

If you want to get adventurous, think about add-ons. While not a toy per se, a decent lubricant is a good-sex staple – it can increase sensation and create a more intimate experience. [Nécessaire’s Sex Gel](https://goop.com/gb-en/necessaire-the-sex-gel/p/?variant_id=54848) is one to keep on your radar: unlike its more traditional counterparts, it uses aloe vera and hyaluronic acid to provide the ‘slip’; it’s water-based, so it’s safe to use with toys and condoms. [Uberlube’s](https://www.uberlube.com/shop/100-ml-bottle) cult formula is free from sticky residue. Play it safe with [HANX’s ](https://www.hanxofficial.com/products/vegan-natural-condoms)vegan, ultra-thin condoms, or try LELO’s bestselling [Hex](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=41168&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lelo.com%2Fhex-condoms-original), designed to maximise sensation without sacrificing safety.

 

 

 

 ![Massage Oil from 210th](https://media.slman.com/LXXXyto9AMFbSr9Wnw7WRUMlKiw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2F210thmassageoil.png?itok=osmXWwul)

 

[#### Massage Oil](https://www.amazon.co.uk/210th-150-Experience-Massage-Oil/dp/B00FLY81IS)

 

##### 210th



 

£29.95

 

 

 

 ![The Sex Gel from Necessaire ](https://media.slman.com/aJx-C3cypAFIunrHGzMJi4K9wFc=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fgoopnecessairethesexgel.png?itok=DXOBau4d)

 

[#### The Sex Gel](https://goop.com/gb-en/necessaire-the-sex-gel/p/?variant_id=54848)

 

##### Necessaire 



 

£19

 

 

 

 ![Massage Candle from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/CuPcKbBSiR9BtjrmCWxg5025LDw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fselfridgeslelomassagecandle.png?itok=6OHlASik)

 

[#### Massage Candle](https://www.lelo.com/flickering-touch-massage-candle&sa=D&source=hangouts&ust=1613066232861000&usg=AFQjCNEpq-eNeWNApIW819Kqt4arIJVgyg)

 

##### Lelo



 

£24.90

 

 

 

 ![Male Condom from Hanx](https://media.slman.com/PmNr2qM2gqn_pB2aRsuzycu_11E=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fhanx-male-condom.jpg?itok=twfV_0ZL)

 

[#### Male Condom](https://www.hanxofficial.com/products/vegan-natural-condoms)

 

##### Hanx



 

£1.99

 

 

 

 ![Zini Sharing for Couples from La Belle Epoque](https://media.slman.com/IOHqf8wcH3ouigL_k72k2AJxSmU=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fla-belle-epoque-zini-sharing-couples.jpg?itok=MUSZ7J9A)

 

[#### Zini Sharing for Couples](https://www.labelle.co.uk/products/zini-sharing-for-couples)

 

##### La Belle Epoque



 

£26

 

 

 

 ![Personal Moisturiser from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/e3FAFTJ-dkpFmSUAErfow-flRJU=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Flelo-personal-moisturiser.jpg?itok=2y8MAOSI)

 

[#### Personal Moisturiser](https://www.lelo.com/personal-moisturizer)

 

##### Lelo



 

£12.90

 

 

 

 



 

 

 

 “This clever candle melts at just above body temperature, so it will be warm to the touch without burning the skin.”  
 

 



 

 



 

 [ ![Massage Oil Candle, £46 | Kiki De Montparnasse](https://media.slman.com/LIG49r72wCwtEjY1ppSF6WgOmZk=/800x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fkikidemontparnassemassageoilcandle.png?itok=kW6GavWN)

 

 ](https://kikidm.com/collections/massage-oil-candles/products/candle-small-lotus-no-9) 

Massage Oil Candle, £46 | Kiki De Montparnasse  


 

 

 

 

 

 

 ![Warming Massage Oil from Slow Sex ](https://media.slman.com/HrSlMZ3U98WaEiZHZ60XiwXwpxQ=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fslowsexwarmingmassageoil.png?itok=mXRZylqR)

 

[#### Warming Massage Oil](https://www.superdrug.com/Health/Sexual-Health/Lube%2C-Gel%2C-Jelly-%26-Oils/Bijoux-Indiscrets-Warming-massage-oil-SLOW-SEX-50-ml/p/798254)

 

##### Slow Sex 



 

£20

 

 

 

 ![Hex Condoms from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/MYu48C7clZ8q7rbTtxywgrHhjUc=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Flelohexcondoms.png?itok=U6Nz-7z4)

 

[#### Hex Condoms](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=41168&murl=https%3A//www.lelo.com/hex-condoms-original)

 

##### Lelo



 

£22.42

 

 

 

 ![Oral Sex Strips from Slow Sex ](https://media.slman.com/u-wGarsgfI-VveRCzjF4Boo2vlA=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fslow-sex-oral-sex-strips.jpg?itok=dcPYhBjL)

 

[#### Oral Sex Strips](https://shopeu.bijouxindiscrets.com/collections/slowsex/products/oral-sex-strips)

 

##### Slow Sex 



 

€4.95

 

 

 

 ![Uberlube 100ml from Uberlube](https://media.slman.com/04aoprlGR6cvbOQHKnZa-Bu3VAY=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fuberlube.png?itok=RK7drpSU)

 

[#### Uberlube 100ml](https://www.uberlube.com/shop/100-ml-bottle)

 

##### Uberlube



 

$28

 

 

 

 ![Ceramic Massage Stone from Jimmy Contour Ceramic](https://media.slman.com/bq8yLFCOaUtPQBQF4BvFiU6XjM4=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fjimmyjanecontourm.png?itok=GEUbbYNs)

 

[#### Ceramic Massage Stone](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Jimmy-Contour-Ceramic-Massage-Stone)

 

##### Jimmy Contour Ceramic



 

£13.59

 

 

 

 ![Lubricant from Hanx](https://media.slman.com/MCtPQpNXZKDV6U1RPHM87tX7aHI=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fsw18.sheerluxe.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fhanxlubricant.png?itok=ZLT82r8g)

 

[#### Lubricant](https://www.hanxofficial.com/products/lubricant)

 

##### Hanx



 

£14.99

 

 

 

 



 

 

 

 

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